When i feel frustrated

When i feel frustrated,i lose my temper,and whenever im disturbing,reprimanding,or giving me another problems, i shout at them and became harmful because i don't want them to give me another headache.i just want to chill down,take it easy,and think for a solution that will help me on how to solve my problems,but sometimes,i can't think for a solution because my sisters are making some noise and my grandmother is shouting, so i always getting mad at them and telling them to shut up their mouth,because im not in a good mood.Some people are getting angry to me because im a short-tempered person,but i don't care because this is me and my personality, and they can't force me to change it.